Tuesday, October 9, 2012

9th December, 1962

The Hongkong and Shanghai Banking Corpn
Hong Kong

Dear Mum, Dad and Alan,

The fog in UK must have held up the mail - the reports on it sounded horrific and must have been unpleasant for you.  Our very cold weather has left us and the present temperature is bearable - however, I have had a cold, as most people have in the office, but the worst of it is over now.  The rest of the family have not been bothered with it yet and I hope they miss it.  Elisabeth continues her visits to Sandy Bay and is very happy.  Susan is bored and we intend to send her to a small nursery we have heard about for a few hours each day.  Adrienne is in her school concert next week and insists that Margo see her as an "angel".  Caroline is taken up with her friends - the main one having the same name as her own and living nearby.  We had two Borneo friends in to dinner last week - he was a CID man in Jesselton and is the same here.  We spent some time talking about the old place and the interesting aspects of his job here.  Had a game of bridge with a Dr Steven and his wife at the university - we met them on the ship.  Last night was the big mess party held in their palatial new building.  Certainly a change from my day.  Huge crowds there and lots to eat, dancing and talking.  We slept in late this morning.  After lunch took the children out to the local farm which is quite and attraction.  Bears and monkeys and for Elisabeth a large "worm" which in fact was a python, slides, fish in aquarium plus the usual turkeys, geese & hens which comprise the main reason for the farm.  The sun was out and a pleasant afternoon was spent there.  I played my first game of squash last week and found I was most unfit.  It is a very strenuous game.  The court is at the top of the bank and it is well to make use of such a handy facility.  Despite the general cold, I stood under a cold shower to cool off - most bracing!

Cheerio for now and trust you are well.
 Love from us all,
Peter

25th November, 1962

The Hongkong and Shanghai BC
Hong Kong.

Dear Mum, Dad and Alan,

Margo's mother wrote that you had not heard from us - trust my letter has arrived by now.  Adrienne's birthday went well, she was very pleased with your present and card.  We managed to obtain a pram for her so she now has her heart's desire.  All the children's toys have been unpacked from the Jesselton boxes and more have been given by friends' who have just left, which compensates for those we discarded.  Thus the bedroom takes some clearing up each day.  We have had E parallel bars made and she can get from end to end on them by herself, though does not lift her feet.  Also had the stool made with the casters on so that Margo can sit down and move along.  (Am writing this with an interrupting background so must concentrate!)  We have seen the professor here who is a specialist in polio and have started 3 times a week physiotherapy and hydrotherapy.  It is a longish journey for Margo.  Thank goodness she can drive and the car is on the road!  It is the most difficult driving that I have ever met, here.  The peak roads are steep and twisty.  They demand constant alertness and this with one's ears popping make driving other than a pleasure.  Wehn I go in to the office in the morning the lower roads are packed with fast moving lanes of cars and one just hopes for the best.  The police are very good but are intent on everything keeping on the go.  Got stuck in the car park the other night and could not get out for 15 mins - just no gap in the traffic at all.  Once away it is stop start in first gear and later when things clear a bit a change into second is a relief - then a crawl to the top.  Going down is really thrilling - as Margo found today when she went out for a run by herself.  A corner too fast and there is an awfully long drop on the other side!  But all went well and I hope we soon become experienced.

The office has been full of interest during this week as the managers have been here for a week's conference, using the inspectors' room in between whiles for general conversation.  Very difficult to check returns with such a babble going on.

We have been to one or two parties and have lots more lined up.  A chinese dinner tomorrow, which will be our first here, promises to be an event as it is given by a local bank.  The children have their first Christmas invitation and so have we.  A masked ball at the Chief Manager's - a dance a the mess - and Christmas lunch at the Ogilvy-Stuarts' (My Penang messmate in 1951)

We have a coal fire going in a large fire-place - the screen is 6 feet long and are wearing sweaters, but no snow yet!  Understand it has been cold at home.

Cheerio and love from us all
Peter

19th November 1962

Flat 4
"Fung Shui"
50 Plantation Road
Hongkong

My dear Henry & Hilda,

Here we are - beginning to settle down in Hongkong.  It is a complete contrast to N. Borneo - none of that quiet peaceful living! - here everything is hustle & hustle.  We have a lovely flat on top of the Peak.  It is in a Bank block of eight flats and there are nice gardens, sand pit and swings etc for the children to play in.  We have a large lounge, dining room, three bedrooms & three bathrooms and each bedroom has a large enclosed balcony which make good playrooms for the girls.  The flat is well furnished but I am hoping to get new curtains and covers.  The bathrooms are a joy - fully tiled in pastel shades and with sunken baths!  In fact the bath attached to our own bedroom is square as well, nice to look at but rather difficult to stretch out in!

Peter is finding his feet in the office - it is a change for him to have to wear a suit instead of whites.  We have been to several cocktail parties since we arrived and I am still trying to remember names and faces of the Bank staff!

Caroline & Adrienne have both started school but unfortunately at separate ones, at least until Sept '63.  Caroline can walk to her school but I take Adrienne there & back everyday.  We have a 15 min walk to the Peak tram - this is a contraption which ascends & descends the sheer face of the hillsides (aren't there these sort of things in Bournemouth?).  This journey takes 10 mins and is quite hair raising when you first do it.  I am blase about it now after my four trips each day.  The trouble is it is very cold up here on the Peak and we have an electric fire is the evenings.  Adrienne & I leave in the mornings muffled to the ears and then strip off at the school.

I have given up the idea of sending Susan to kindergarten although she very much wants to go - it would only mean another journey in probably a different direction!

Elisabeth has been examined by a Proffessor Hodgson here - he is rated among the top ten authorities of Polio in children.  He says that Elisabeth is still seriously paralysed and will probably never completely recover.  However there is still room for improvement & he arranging Physiotherapy & Hydrotherapy for her several times a week.  We are fortunate in that there is a Polio clinic here and a Hydrotherapy pool has recently been opened - thanks to the J.C.C.

Hongkong is very overwhelming at first and I am still trying to find my way around the shops.  We will be sending Xmas presents but we missed the last sea-mail posting date so things will arrive rather late.

Enclosed are photos of the children - you will remember the ones taken in your garden, Hilda.  The one of Elisabeth was taken while she was in hospital, hence the rather shaggy hair.

I should have said "your old garden" - how are you settling in the new house?  I expect Peter will be writing to you later and he will give a more detailed description of Hongkong.  We have a heavenly view from our flat - we overlook the entire harbour and the New Territories and at night it is one mass of sparkling lights.  The children call it the "star light land".  I must get ready to go our for lunch so,

love from us all
Margo

Monday, October 8, 2012

Sunday 11th November, 1962

The Hongkong and Shanghai BC
Hongkong

Dear Mum, Dad and Alan,

Thank you for your first letter of this new tour.  The sea trip ended well.  Susan had two days in the ship's hospital with suspected measles, but it was only a chest infection which cleared up neatly before arrival.  We were met by friends who had everything arranged and got off the Chusan on the mainland quay and stepped on to the bank launch, "Wayfoong" to cross to Hong Kong island.  Then by large American car up and up, 1400 feet to our flat in a block known as "Fung Shui".  We are on the second floor by lift and find it to be large enough for our needs with three bedroom, three bathrooms, three wardrobe rooms with dehumidifing dryers, large lounge, dining room, kitchen, service space, very long hallway and extensive verander balconies.  We are in no way cramped and the children have settle happily form the word 'go'.  Caroline is already at school nearby but Adrienne could not get in and starts this coming week down below.  A nuisance this as Margo will have to take her by Peak Tram.  Time and money consuming - but there is a chance for her to join the Peak School at the end of next year.  They have plenty of playroom outside in the garden where a big firework display was held for them last week.  The weather is cold a the moment and cloud is down obscuring our magnificent view.  We are immediately above the bank and can see the harbour, mainland and the airdrome runway and at night this is a fabulous glitter of lights.  One can sit and watch fifty or more ships - planes taking off and landing - naval craft coming and going.  The place itself is crowded and there is much traffic.  Shops are not easy to get to but there are so many of them once there it is dazing and expensive.  Margo has been very busy with the schooling arrangements and has even managed most of the Christmas cards.  I have finally had the photos developed and one or two fo the children are OK; apart from sending you a set I will send the negatives to Alan so that if any are good enough he may like to enlarge.  I have only been "around town" twice so far and have seen very little - it is tiring on the feet as ones has to walk most places and there are streets on streets and arcades in between, there are crowns and crowds of people jostling about - a far cry from Borneo.  Caroline has just had her first telephone call from a boy friend and forgot to find out who it was.  Luckily he came to collect her and she has gone out to play.  My office work has not been too strenuous as this has been a slack time between returns.  Everyone is very friendly but is is obviously necessary to be on ones' toes.  Have been to one party and met a lot of old friends.  However, there are many in the bank here who I do not know - there are so very many of them in the main office.  The building itself is very bis as you know and I still get lost if I take the wrong turning.  An extra floor is being built in and another lift, all dusing normal working hours.  It is lucky I am in H.O. out of the clamour.  Two of the inspectors are off on a tour of Calcutta and Saigon shortly.  I expect I shall be on the next one but where to and when I do not know.  They normally take two to three weeks and apart from the work involved can be quite pleasant.  Elisabeth is very well and during the sea trip and now is noticeably stronger, presumably through use of calipers.  I have ordered the 'walking bars' for her and mobile stood for Margo to sit on, through the bank property department who have been very helpful.

The car is due on 16th when traveling should be easier.  The driving on the Peak is a serious affair of steepness and tight corners.  Again the roads are numerous and my sense of direction is hard put to know the way.  One's ears pop on the way up and down, it is no mean climb and I just hope my small car can manage.

So! we are here with a lot to do and I hope, enjoy.  No hot weather for at least a couple of months - a manager's conference in HO in a week's time - a series of Christmas parties for which invitations have already arrived.  Will let you know how we make out.

Cheerio and lots of love
from us all
Peter

3rd March 1962

Written on HSBC airmail letter.

Jesselton

Dear Mum, Dad and Alan,

I don't know wheter a letter of mine has gone astray but I have not received one from you for some time.  My relief has been here for two weeks now and I have handed over most my desk and am myself relieving in Books for two weeks.  Meanwhile, a series of farewell parties have commenced and tonight we are giving a cocktail party which will be our last big do.  A dinner at Government House on 12th has also suitably cropped up and a week afterwards I shall be off to Labnan.  Susan went to school for the first time on 1st M.  and enjoyed herself.  With 3 at school it will leave Margo relatively clear in the mornings to do the many things that have to be done.  We have been inoculated & injected this week which alas brings the great event nearer still.  Our next door neighbours have recently bought a new motor boat and we were all (all) taken out on Sunday for a glorious picnic on the island opposite our house.  The children had a grand time and I caught a fish length 30 1/2" which is of the mackerel family, about 6 to 7 llbs.  We had part for lunch next day and the owners of the boat had the rest for dinner.  It was very good but like mackerel, very filling.  The other people in the boat at the time thought I had caught a bunch of seaweed at first!

Well there is not much more to write about that I won't be telling you soon in more details but Elisabeth is now a non-stop chatter-box, more so than I can remember the others being.  She goes on and on and is most insistent that she has attention.

Cheerio for now and love,

Peter.

6th Feb 1962

The Hongkong Bank,
Jesselton


Dear Mum, Dad and Alan,

Thank you for your letter and also thank Mr Martin for his help.  The item he indicated is just the thing I want but not Sanderstead.  I have several items on enquiry near Rye Sussex and I do want this or Kent if possible.  I thought I had the perfect one and cabled but it had just been let.  Am in contact with 6 agents!  We now know that Mrs A can puts us all up and this will be the best arrangement in the beginning and I can come to you for a few days after the first one.  Our only thought will be, at first, to get E to Gt Ormond St and arrange for her treatment and everything else.  We will fit in from there.  Later on you might like to take say any 2 out of the 3 eldest for short times so you can get to know them.  They have recently had a haircut and I am constantly calling them by the wrong names!  Especially in the car I can never be sure of the voices, because C can lapse into baby talk and A & S can put on adult talk and its all a bit difficult.  We have shipped home a lot of toys received at Xmas.  E&S no seem attracted to Dinky toy type cars, planes etc.  But once home may need clothes.

I shall leave any meeting arrangements for you to make with Mrs A.  It has occurred to me that I will not want the whole family in my new car and possibly if Mrs A met us with a car hire they could go in that and I could take someone else in mine to act as a guide.  (This is not clear at all - the children & Margo to go in the car hire for a smooth run to the house).  Perhaps Alan could bring you both & he could be a help generally.  If it is a fine day the airport should provide a lot of attraction & you could have a drink there whilst waiting.  There is still almost 2 months to work out the details.

Love Peter

PS.  Please move all breakables to high level (roof?)

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22nd Jan 1962

The Hongkong Bank
Jesselton

Dear Mum Dad and Alan,

Thank you for your letter which once again I have lost before answering.  We have done some packing and shipped the crates for the UK and commenced on the crockery so it is probably at the bottom of something.  It was -  I have found it!  I don't know yet what the arrangements will be on arrival in UK.  We shall all be very tired.  I am usually exhausted and this flight will be the longest I have done.  For the first night all the children might stay with Margo at Eden Park and afterwards I might stay with you with two of them for a few days if that can be managed, before we move into wherever we are going.  I expect Margo will want to take Elisabeth to Gt Ormond Street fairly early on as that is in the forefront of our minds and thereafter things will sort themselves out.  The children will be arriving near to their normal bedtime (if you add 71/2 hrs on to 11am) and the excitement, new people and places will be a lot to take at first.  I am hoping that they will not be expected to respond to a lot of fuss because it won't work.  They wait a bit before coming to new people and react much better if slightly ignored.  Especially Susan who does not like being held.  They are very amusing to watch and listen to when they do not know they are observed but a certain amount of noise arises when all together.

Its very good for Alan to be organising something and it can provide a lot of interest.

Thank you for sending cardigans.  I believe Margo has enough to get home with - we are now in the position of having to be within the weight allowance for anything more we bring home but I will let you know a the end of this letter.  The article in the Standard with the lighting was good.  Mr Martin sent a local paper too which was interesting.

Cheerio for now and love from us all,
Peter

PS  Caroline has just answered the phone properly for the first time and had a conversation with one of her friends.

PPS  Margo thanks you for the offer but all is OK at the moment.  Also says please hold on to Susan's and Elisabeth's presents and tell everyone not to send anything more out as we will not be able to take it in the plane.  P.